Wednesday, January 12, 2011

"Oh, a kiss can last all night!"

More about this song later. Love love love.

So my friend Jay and I spent almost an hour last night creating a sexy playlist.

[What else do you expect from two nerdy, church going teenagers? This really should have been expected.]

These songs are ones that are either sensual or just ones that make you want to get up and dance. I don't know about you guys, but I never feel hotter than when I'm up dancing at a party. There's just something about music.

I've decided to share this with you because it so made my night last night. 

[Get your minds out of the gutter!]
  1. Let's Get It On - Marvin Gaye Okay, really? You can't do a sexy playlist and not have this one! It's freaking Marvin Gaye, dude. Moving on.
  2. Can't Get Enough of Your Love, Baby - Barry White No need to listen to the words. Listen to the voice. 
  3. Dirrty - Christina Aguilera It's all upbeat. Just listen to it and dance to it. It's just one of those songs that makes you feel like you're the hottest girl in the room. 
  4. Sugar (Gimme Some) - Trick Daddy I completely forgot this song existed until Jay reminded me. I dig it.
  5. Naughty Girl - Beyonce This is another one of those songs that just makes you want to get up and dance. Anyone? Anyone? Just me? Oh. Okay.
  6. Toxic - Britney Spears Classic. Straight up classic.
  7. Pour Some Sugar on Me - Def Leopard Alright, have you ever seen a movie that has this song it in which the scene didn't involve some chick that the characters thought was really hot? Didn't think so. Try dancing to this song in a way that isn't somewhat provocative. ...You can't!
The rest of the playlist includes:
Also, Smack That by Akon, Play by David Banner [Holy crap, this song is dirty. So so dirty. If you have sensitive ears, don't listen to it. My mom is a sex ed teacher and it kind of scandalized me...!], Lady Marmalade - a bunch of artists, I'm a Slave 4 U - Britney Spears, She Wolf by Shakira, and Blah Blah Blah by Ke$ha. 

By, my personal favorite, Sexy Silk by Jessie J, has been stuck in my head ALL DAY. I love it and all, but when I have music stuck in my head, I walk to the rhythm [It's a band thing.]. Because it's this one, I've started walking around like a stripper [Which is something that my friend Caleb tells me I do all the time. Psh!] [Jay apparently agrees. He's decided it's my new theme song.]

But all this music [plus my 4 day long snow break....!] has got me thinking. These days, sexy is often seen as a negative thing. People think that sexy is synonymous with slutty. I disagree. There is a big difference in my eyes. 

Sexy is someone is confidant and comfortable with themselves. Slutty is someone who uses sex to fill some emotional void.

Edit: I just realized what I put, thanks to a comment by Stephanie. I always slip up and use words like slutty and whore, but I'm working on stopping. I agree with her. I know as a Catholic, I'm supposed to be all hardcore "Wait until marriage or you're going to hell!" and whatnot, but honestly, I think that it's your body and your decision. Hell, I'm no great picture of purity, and if I expect people not to judge me, I can't judge them. Thanks for helping me catch that, Stephanie!

Just a thought. What do you guys think on the matter?

May the force be with y'all.


Stephanie said...

I think that both are okay, to be honest. I think that "slut" is the one with the bad rep. People should be free to do what they want to do as long as it doesn't harm themselves or other people. What business of mine is it if someone thinks sex is nice?

As for being sexy? Everyone can be sexy, if they have the right attitude, and the "beautiful" people [if I may] can lose thier sexiness with the wrong attitude. It's totally a mindset. High five on the Marvin Gaye. Good girl. =]

Samantha said...

I agree about the difference! I think people tend to misuse the word slut. I know people that I know do. Someone in short shorts and a skanky top is considered a slut to some of the kids I go to school with.

So there's confident sexy and slutty sexy haha. When my cousin was little and she saw people kissing she would say "ohhh they're having sexys!" hahah I laugh everytime.

We're off all week thanks to the snow!

theTsaritsa said...

What people do behind closed doors is none of my business, especially if it's not hurting anyone. There's nothing wrong with being sexy!

Kate said...

I've always admired woman who are sexy. It gives off more of a sense of powerful and confident. Slutty's just slutty. It's actually kind of sad, too, that some woman think that's the only way they can get attention.